Activist for ethnic and intellectual diversity, author, and attorney Lawrence Otis Graham was born December 25, 1961, in New York City, New York to Richard C. Graham, a real estate developer, and Betty J. Graham, a social worker.
He and his brother, Richard, were reared in Mount Vernon and later in White Plains, New York. As a child, Graham first experienced bigotry in 1972, when a white parent removed her child from a pool he waded in. An excellent student and tennis team member, Graham graduated from White Plains High School in 1979. At Princeton University he earned an English B.A. in 1983 and a Harvard Law School J.D. in 1988.
Graham met Detroit, Michigan native Pamela Thomas at Harvard where she graduated Phi Beta Kappa and magna cum laude in 1985 with a B.A. in Economics. At St. Thomas Episcopal Church in New York City they married on February 15, 1992 and later had children Gordon, Harrison, and Lindsey.
Employed by prestigious law firms, including New York City’s Weil, Gotshal & Manges and Cuddy & Feder, Graham had a personal connection with the latter from his youth as a family friend.
Despite his academic and professional credentials, Graham in 1991 took a job earning minimum wage as a busboy to examine systemic racism in the predominantly white Greenwich Country Club. This experiment led to his career explaining racism in upper-class settings. Eventually he left the law profession to become a full-time writer which allowed him to examine this continuing problem despite widespread claims of racial progress. Throughout the rest of his career Graham studied the impact of race on social class identity and its subsequent divisions within the African American community regardless of individual achievement and wealth.
Graham authored 14 books, including Proversity, A Member of the Club: Reflections on Life in a Racially Polarized World (1996), Our Kind of People: Inside America’s Black Upper Class (1999), a New York Times best-seller, and The Senator and the Socialite: The True Story of America’s First Black Dynasty (2007).
Our Kind of People proved to be Graham’s most important and enduring work. In 2019, C-SPAN2’s Book TV showcased it to commemorate the 20th anniversary publication. Too, Fox-TV planned a primetime drama series around the book. Graham was also a political commentator for multiple media outlets and a contributing editor for Reader’s Digest.
Graham served on various boards such as Westchester County, New York’s Holocaust Commission, Police Board, and Red Cross; SUNY Purchase College Foundation, University of Pennsylvania School of Veterinary Medicine, American Theatre Wing, Eaglebrook School, and the Horace Mann School.
A member of Sigma Pi Phi Fraternity, the oldest African American fraternity, Lawrence Otis Graham died at 59 in Chappaqua, New York on February 19, 2021 of an unknown cause.
Otis D. Alexander, Library Director at Saint John Vianney College Seminary & Graduate School in Miami, Florida, has also directed academic and public libraries in the District of Columbia, Indiana, Texas, and Virginia. In addition, he has been a library manager in the Virgin Islands of the United States as well as in the Republic of Liberia. His research has appeared in Public Library Quarterly, Scribner’s Encyclopedia of American Lives, and Virginia Libraries journal. Alexander received the Bachelor of Arts and Master of Science degrees from the University of the District of Columbia and the Master of Library & Information Science degree from Ball State University. He earned a Doctor of Philosophy degree from International University and studied additionally at Harvard Graduate School of Education Leadership for Academic Librarians, Oberlin Conservatory of Music Voice Performance Pedagogy, and Atlanta University School of Library & Information Studies.
